and that end, if it is not already here, is coming soon. 😒

i am spending a couple weeks staying with friends near where we used to live, in auburn. upon my return, it is very likely that we’re going to install an ADU next to the house, which will become my default space. that way i will have access to the house and garage, when i need to feed the cat, use my workshop, fill incense orders, and tend to my nursery, but i will also have a separate space where i can sleep, take a shower, change clothes, cook food, and suchlike, and be completely separate from the main part of the house if i want to be… or if monique has a new lover in the house…

although, at this point, i’m not sure i could handle even being in a separate, private space NEXT TO a house that contained monique and somebody else who is making love with her. 😒

one thing at a time… 😒 baby steps… 😒

oh, also, i met with the death doula today, and i now have a shiny, new, officially notarized copy of an Advance Health Care Directive (visible in the black bar on the left hand side of the screen, under the picture of Joe Btfsplk), which i intend to take with me to my doctor’s appointment on september 22nd, to wave in his face and say “hah hah! i’ve already got one, and there’s nothing you can do about it!”… and then, probably, spend the rest of my doctor’s visit playing with my pocket full of weird noises, because, apparently, he is amused by such things…